Show Notes Episode 7 features an interview with Dr. Sherri Yoder. Sherri encourages and inspires with her story of following God's plan for her life versus the status quo. Listen in to SOS with Melissa Smallwood on your favorite podcast platform! Here are ways you can learn more about and connect with Dr Sherri Website FacebookI Podcast: (on itunes and Spotify) Thriving Thoughts with Dr Sherri Instagram … [Read more...]
Don’t Tell Me There’s No God
I felt him release his grip on my life jacket. I turned my head, still frantically clinging to the dirt and rocks on the embankment he had pushed me to. I saw the look of surrender in his eyes, and the violent current responded by beginning to pull him away. I was safe. He could give up now. It seemed like everything was happening in slow motion as panic welled up inside me and I decided in that moment that I would rather die with him than live without him. I let go of the embankment to grab the strap of his life jacket. "Don't leave me", I screamed over the roar of the raging river as we were sucked back into the current we had been fighting so hard against. July 30, 2018 is a day that will forever be etched into my mind. As a survivor of childhood trauma and a Masters level … [Read more...]
The Power of Acceptance on Mother’s Day
Sometimes there's just not a Mother's Day card that fits. For those of you who have stood awkwardly in the greeting card section of the local supercenter, this post is for you. Maybe you stand in that aisle, putting cards back one by one because you can't find the one that says what you need it to. There isn't a Hallmark card that says "It's okay. You did the best you could and I turned out okay.", now is there? Maybe it's not that you don't want to acknowledge the holiday or let your mom know that you love her, you just want a card that doesn't feel dishonest and phony. Some of us have mom shaped holes in our hearts and there's no day that you feel the ache of those places quite like Mother's Day. To be a mother is to put your child's needs above your own, when necessary. … [Read more...]
In humble gratitude
In 2014, on my old blog that had decent page views, faithful advertisers and loyal subscribers, I published an Open Letter to Michael Brown's mama after his shooting death at the hands of police. I conveyed my deep sympathy for her loss and my sadness over the way her baby's name was being drug through the mud as his youthful mistakes were being blamed for the unjust actions of adults sworn to protect. While I knew my opinion was not popular amongst my Facebook friends, I was completely unprepared for the level of vitriol and hate that filled my inbox after hitting publish on that post. And the source of that hate, judgment and nastiness were my "Christian" readers who felt that I was "abandoning my faith" and "giving officers a death sentence" and "bowing to political … [Read more...]
SOS Podcast Episode 2
For this installment of the SOS Podcast, I interviewed author and speaker, Cindy Bultema. Cindy has an incredible story of overcoming addiction and the loss of a loved one that she shared ten years ago on the original SOS podcast (you can listen to that original interview here). This time, Cindy opened up about her publishing journey, her transition from writing/speaking full time to accepting a position as the Executive Director of an international ministry and her hopes for the future as she prepares to face an empty nest in the next five years. Listen in and you are sure to be encouraged. You can find more about Cindy at her website and follow her on social media: Facebook and Instagram. … [Read more...]
Episode 1 #sospodcast
So excited to share the inaugural episode of The SOS Podcast with Melissa Smallwood! Sharing Our Stories was my original podcast on Blog Talk Radio way back in 2009. Recently, I felt a stirring to relaunch it and share the stories that make up our lives. And, here we are. Enjoy this episode as I share a little of my heart and then interview the fabulous Kristy Sutton of This Hard Calling as she shares her story of foster care, adoption and starting a non-profit. You can connect with Kristy on Facebook and Instagram as well. Listen in and be sure to let me know what you think! And, if you would be so kind, please subscribe to the podcast and leave me a review! That helps get my podcast shared with other listeners! … [Read more...]